Challenges during sex Top 14 misconceptions

When you sleep with someone, you want to give them the best sexual experience possible. To achieve this, you need to avoid these big mistakes during sex. These are the biggest downsides of sex dating.

There are many things that can put you off during sex, the main ones are listed here. This way, you can be sure that you are doing it right.

The first deviations concern annoying behaviour. You can ruin your partner's sex tremendously with your behaviour.

Selfishness means that you only think about your own pleasure. That the other person enjoys it is not so important. You mainly do what you feel like doing.

The difference between horniness, which makes you want something strongly, and pure selfishness is that horniness is very horny and sexy for your partner.

With selfishness you don't get carried away, no, you just want to please yourself and that's it. ....

One mistake that can put you off and that you can make during sex is overestimating yourself.

The difference between overestimating yourself and knowing you're good at something is in your attitude.

Overestimating yourself will cause you to lose sight of what you are good at. Regardless of how the other person reacts. You don't shift gears.

Also, you unconsciously exude something annoyingly arrogant.

It's something you can't directly control, but it's a big disruptive factor.

And why is that?

It makes the other person even more insecure.
It makes the other person more inhibited
It makes the other person much less able to enjoy himself/herself.

Building self-confidence is a process. And if you are insecure, try to avoid it:

Don't keep asking for approval
Don't constantly ask if the other person is OK.
Don't fish for compliments

If you are extremely insecure, you have to work on it. This will greatly increase your own pleasure and therefore that of the other person.

This is extremely frustrating and boring for the other person.

Imagine you are giving pleasure to someone and the other person is lying quietly. No moaning, no noise and little movement.

You don't know if the other person likes it and you continue desperately.

For these reasons, showing feelings and emotions during sex is a rejection and a big mistake.

Does someone spontaneously do something during sex that you wouldn't do? Don't judge that.

This is the biggest mistake you can make. The other person will feel much less free afterwards, if they want to have sex with you at all.

You don't have to like what the other person has done, but judging is very unpleasant.

When there are so many things you can enjoy and do. But if you focus on the wrong thing, what you do is a big rejection.

Yes, that's it with your mobile phone - is it Facebook, Whatsapp or something else?

Check it carefully after sex. That way, the other person keeps the feeling that it's all about you. Besides, you don't want to interrupt the lovemaking, do you?

You know that touch that you know the other person will really like if you do. And have the most powerful orgasm ever.

You've compromised and it doesn't seem to be working. But you keep going. You've been going for 15 minutes and it still doesn't work. ....

Stop.

Don't stick to a trick that always seemed to work. It can be very annoying for the other person.

It could be your orgasm or your partner's orgasm. In any case, if you focus too much on these things, it puts you off. Enthusiasm is good, but obsession clouds. So enjoy sex and let the other person enjoy, then the orgasm will come on its own ? .

This is very dangerous territory. You are comparing your current bed partner to someone from the past. This does no one any good.

Should you put a certain comparison in your mouth because the other person was a little better? Shut up, because this serves no one.

It is better to communicate your needs so that your bed partner can enjoy you the way you want.

It is very unpleasant when you have a self-imposed plan to please someone and you don't deviate from it.

It's not spontaneous at all and can even be annoying if the other person wants something different.

You may already have an idea of how you want to spoil someone, but don't be too pushy. The fact is that your magic combination doesn't work for everyone.

Always pay attention to your interlocutor's signals.

Some things are just annoying and prevent you from enjoying sex.

You don't have to start every sex session well washed and with brushed teeth. That's impossible, because sex also happens spontaneously.

What you do need to do is this:

Shower regularly.
Floss, brush, scrape your tongue.
Trim pubic hair
Trim your nails

This will ensure that you are always ready for sex.

For both men and women, it is important to have an idea of what is to come. Always having sex right away is a big disadvantage for your partner.

So don't be someone who systematically skips foreplay, because that will always cripple your sex life.

Ejaculating once too quickly is not a problem, but if it happens regularly, it's annoying. Being in control is not always easy, but when your partner is starting to get into it. It's a disappointment if it's over before you start.....

If you've had a great time. Also make sure the other person has had enough. It's very annoying (and a big turn-off) for the other person if they're still very horny and you've already gone to sleep.

Always make sure that the other person can fall asleep peacefully. Then you will have a very happy couple ? .